A thought from a friend.

My friend is going through some changes.  He has had one business going, but is trying to launch a different one.  In the meanwhile, he might have to conform to society's wage system.  His thoughts of life have reflected his realization of what could or could not be important in his own life.  Here it is.

Talk to the right people, talking to a wall doesn’t help, (if the people u talk to have their own issues and are not dealing with them)

 

Always compare yourself to people ahead, not to people behind, don’t forget that they are there though.  “people out there have it so much worse than me… look out for number one… sounds selfish, but in the end it will in-turn help others.

 

Issues need to be remembered whether or not it hurts, forgetting may help in the immediate, but will only cause more problems in the future.

Sub conscious will remember no matter what, so if u consciously make the effort and succeed at forgetting then there is miscommunication and arguments between the conscious and subconscious.

Anxiety and other symptoms of this are just that, SYMPTOMS, it is your body telling you something is wrong, just like when u get a cut and your body sends messages to your brain in the form of physical pain.  If these symptoms are ignored then there will become an infection, which is a lot harder to deal with then the original burst of pain.  The longer u let it fester the greater the damage will be, but everything can be overcome, and help is good.

 

Strength in numbers

Good help works

Talking, Talking, Talking

 

Bully has big issues, communication with LOVED ones is the key.

 

Every little thing effects who you are, so even if u think that an issue is dead, that is a lie, it may have been overcome, but knowing and not forgetting is very important to stay on top of it.

Everyone has issues, everyone, it’s the people who deal with them that win, and they do that with help, fighting anything is easier with help.

Everyone knows the symptoms and when someone is being affected,

Talking about it shouldn’t be EASY, if u just talk and don’t mean anything then that’s worthless (she talks to everyone and its “no big deal”) that is lying to yourself, the issue is bad and its okay to be upset, its good to be upset.

PROJECTION

V with control, because she is out of control with one thing that is causing her pain, and when she was out of control before it caused her serious pain

J with openness, he has many deep things that he is not willing to share with anyone, so with everything else he is open

J with being serious, because many serious issues from childhood bring hurt and discomfort

Open—everyone is looking for that special person, that “normal” person, u have hear dit before, from men, “girls r not normal”, from girls the opposite, well here’s the news, no one is, that’s for sure, so then, if everyone is not “normal I guess everyone is normal.

 

I know this is a little more personal than my usual "all encompassing" talk.  What are your thoughts about this man's plight?